ArkFam is a really fun server, the only thing I suggest is either shorter nights-or to change the gamma option, it's a real bumber that I have to stop playing every time it's night because I can't see at all.
This is a PVP server so the gamma option is purposely turned off. The nights are hard but that's what adds to the survival experience. The more the ARK Devs nerf the game, the easier it gets, the quicker it becomes boring. I remember when I use to play being lost in the woods and all of a sudden hearing large footsteps in the dark only to lite a torch and see a T-Rex staring back at me as I turned and ran for my life. The game has added a few items to fight off the darkness, it is just up to the survivors to reach those items and use them wisely. It is all part of the survival experience.